I'm a lifestyle coach and creative who believes you've gotta build your dreams from the inside out. 

I’m Colette Kati Butler — Empowerment Coach, podcaster, mother of 5, musician, yoga teacher, and one of the original creators of the daily vlogging revolution as part of The Shaytards.

But that’s not the full story.

For years, I looked like I had it all. Fame, money, the perfect family on YouTube, millions of followers, a studio sold to Disney…
But inside? I was crumbling. Living in fear, anxiety, and self-abandonment 90% of the time, and only catching glimpses of peace.

I didn’t know it then, but I was trapped in cycles of codependency, people-pleasing, and self-sacrifice.
Like many of you, I believed if the people and circumstances outside of me were okay, then maybe I would be okay too.

Spoiler: That strategy doesn’t work. And it almost cost me everything — including myself.

Rock bottom became my invitation to come back home to myself.
Through therapy, coaching, recovery programs, and doing the real, gritty inner work, I learned how to stop outsourcing my worth.
I rewired my inner world from fear to freedom.

I went from feeling anxious 90% of the time…

To living grounded, empowered, and at peace 90% of the time — even when life around me looks messy.

Today, I help others do the same.

My family

I do this work because I’ve been there.
Because I know what it’s like to live your life from the outside in, trying to control, manage, and please everyone around you, hoping it will finally make you feel enough.
It won’t.

And I know what’s possible when you decide to stop abandoning yourself and choose yourself instead.

That’s why I created The Everyday Freedom Formula and became a certified Mastery Method Coach — so I could help others reclaim their power, worth, and joy from the inside out.